I try to give people compliments, but I can’t think of exactly what they are later on. I tell people that they have nice jewelry or clothes, that their hair looks nice, tell people good job. All kinds of stuff! It’s hard when someone says “what compliment did you give today?” Like I can remember!!

It’s good to give people compliments though. Even just a little one. It could make someone’s whole day!


Blog Prompts

For December I wrote a bunch of blog prompts in my journal and I’ve been checking them off as I’ve done them. Being that its December and closer to Christmas a lot of them have been about helping. Today’s prompt was “Who helped you today?” Since I’ve been pretty lazy this weekend, I didn’t go anywhere so no one helped me.

I ordered food though, through Skip the Dishes. I guess the guy who delivered the food helped me so that I didn’t have to go pick it up or cook. They also sent the wrong order so I ended up getting a couple of free salads!! That’s helpful!

I also bought groceries and went through a checkout, so the woman who scanned my groceries and bagged them helped me too!

I guess really you should stop and think because were out there helping each other in ways we don’t even realize!

Lazy Days and Happy always

I had a pretty laid back weekend. I wasn’t feeling 100% on Saturday, so I rested. I finished a book and started a new book. I also caught up on a lot of TV.

It’s not that I didn’t get anything done this weekend, I have one Christmas present left to wrap, and only one to purchase! I got my rooms tidied and vacuumed, and I washed my bedding as well as my regular laundry. I also went for groceries. I just didn’t do a whole lot of other stuff. I napped yesterday but I didn’t nap today.

I don’t know, sometimes just being lazy and doing things you enjoy just fills a person with happiness! The holidays are probably going to be a lot more busy!!

Christmas Movies

Wow, how can someone pick a favourite Christmas movie? There are a few that I love and watch year after year!!

National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation – something about the random things that happen, makes me laugh! I actually bought it at a sale at the library so now I can watch it every year without fail!

White Christmas – this one is a classic! The fact that they actually sing, and the romance. It’s so sweet!

Meet Me In St Louis – more singing! I don’t get to watch this one every year, but it’s still super good!!

I also love watching all the different made for TV movies and Hallmark ones. They’re always so cute! Like the one where the girl hits her head and ends up in the snow globe. Or the one where the person goes back in time for a second chance. There’s so many!! I just love Christmas movies!!!

Finals Week

Every college and university student dreads these two (sometimes three if they do a full year) weeks. Final exams. That’s what is happening at my work right now.

I am an invigilator, my title is Service Specialist II, but what we do is administer exams. If you’ve read previous posts, or know me, you sort of know what I do. Today was crazy busy! It was extremely challenging. I even gave one guy his final exam and he was supposed to be doing the one right before it! I emailed the instructor to let her know he had it for less than a minute. Man, did I ever feel stupid!!

I also had to fix some exams I signed in because I didn’t do it in a smart way. They sent a whole bunch of exams from another college in one email, and I didn’t think to separate them by student. I did ask for feedback from my two co-workers but they’re quite busy with their own things too that they probably didn’t think about it too hard. It’s okay though because it’s sorted and ready for the busier days coming up. Tomorrow might be the busiest year until April.

It’s funny how exhausted you can be when you have to use your brain and your body at work. Especially when most weeks you have downtime here and there!! I’m the kind of person who thrives in busy times though. I consider myself to be quite organized. Which is challenging when you are working with someone who gets scattered. My two co-workers are pretty good though because they have been doing the job for a long time. One is scattered, which frustrates me a little bit because she can get kind of snappy when I try to help, and often isn’t listening because she’s thinking too far ahead. We get by though and we all leave Work happy and come to work happy the next day. I like my job, but boy was it ever challenging today!! Better rest up good for tomorrow!!


I laugh a lot! I think everyone should. Recently I was reading an article at work and it said that you should laugh for at least 10 minutes a day. I’m not sure if that meant straight, or throughout the day. Sometimes it’s just a chuckle, sometimes you’re laughing so hard that you’re crying and your stomach muscles are clenched!

I laugh with my co-workers quite a few times a day. Often when we’re tired we’ll all get the giggles, or something random we’ll come up and we’ll have a couple chuckles. Even sometimes with the students. There were also a couple instructors that came in during the last week and had us cracking up! One has a beard and is on his way to Miami, but he said he shaved everything else! One had us roaring in laughter with his impression of The Mamas and The Papas. It’s a good place to be!

I laugh with my friends and my family. Bronn makes me laugh. Lately I’ve watched a few movies where parts had me laughing to tears! If you’re wondering, The Night Before, Seth Rogan’s inner monologue….I recommend you check it out!

Laughter is the best medicine!!

Songs for the Christmas Spirit

Wow, which song gets me into the Christmas Spirit? There are so many to choose from, and new ones keep getting made every year!!

“It’s A Marshmallow World” makes me feel better about when there’s a lot of snow, even when it comes in October. It’s so positive and just makes you want to play in it!

“My Only Wish This Year” – the Britney Spears one – it usually speaks to me because I’ve been single for a long time, and it’s pretty catchy. It’s been around for quite a long time now, too!

I like hearing the Nutcracker songs too, but there was a business I used to have to call at my old job and it played while you were on hold. I feel like it was a combination if that and Swan Lake all year long!! I love the Nutcracker movie/play though!!

I also like “Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays” “Wonderful Christmastime” and “Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas” (especially when Judy Garland sings it on Meet Me in St Louis) but like I said, there are just so many to choose from!!


It’s hard answering the question “did you help anyone today and how?” because I’m always in a sort of customer based industry. Right now I am working at the college in testing services. I administer tests to students by handing them and accepting from them exams brought to us by their teachers that they missed or ones sent to us from other school or institutions when people are taking courses. It’s not necessarily the same kind of help as when I worked at Walmart, they’re not really customers, but it is helping the teachers too because they don’t have to stay after hours for one or two students.

I also help by answering inquiries by email or phone. That’s providing someone a Services if they have questions. So I think I helped a lot of people with their educational pursuits today.

I can’t think if I helped anyone in any other ways today. I may have held the door for some people or let someone into the lane during a busy traffic rush. I may have also smiled at someone who was having a bad day and brought up their spirits, or posted something uplifting on Facebook when someone was scrolling through negative posts all morning. Sometimes we could be helping out in ways we don’t even notice! Who did you help today?


I’m grateful for my friends!

Today I had the opportunity to meet a friend from high school. It’s been a while since we’ve seen each other because we lived so far away, but now we’re closer. She went through on her way home from visiting her sister and a few friends. We sat at Starbucks and chatted for two hours, it felt like no time had passed at all!

Yesterday I went to a Christmas craft and trade show with my friend and her three boys. It was a lot of fun, lots to look at, and something different to do. I’m grateful that we live closer again and are able to spend time together, even if it’s not as often as we would like!

Worst Part

I don’t think there was a bad part of today, it’s the weekend after all!! I guess it was when I went to lay down and read in the afternoon and ended up falling asleep. I was cold and had a hard time warming up!! Then I had super weird dreams!! Oh well, could be worse!!